Nowadays most people make the acquaintance on the Internet, such is the modern style of life and communication. However, in the age of social networks, dating sites and e-mail you just can’t ignore such a tool of courtship as a correspondence!
Our site is not an exception and it was created to unite men and women so that they could create families! To make an impression on a Russian woman by correspondence on our site, men need to follow certain rules and to avoid common mistakes. We will tell you about some simple but very important methods to make a Russian woman like you by correspondence.
Decide on the goal of communication
In the process of acquaintance, the tactic of behavior is different in each case and depends on the goals that a man has set for himself. For example, a man just wants to get communication experience with Russian women and this is a banal way to spend free time and to have fun. Or a man is guided by purposeful communication for further invitation to a date with the possibility of relationships and creation of a family. Therefore, there is no sense in passing to communication with a woman if a man has no idea about what he wants to get from it. The goal must always be kept in mind and also be reached in the shortest way.
When the connection is established and the communication between two people is adjusted, then at that moment it’s important not to miss a particular detail. A man must clearly and courageously show a woman that he tends to serious relationships and for this it’s necessary to lead all communication according to the pattern of the strong relationships creating, but not of the friendly communication.
Grammar and spelling in correspondence
Spelling, grammatical, syntactic and other mistakes in writing will spoil the impression about a man. Thus, a man should try not to make mistakes in writing because his literacy is a sign of intelligence. And doing so, a man shouldn’t point out the mistakes of a woman because no one likes bores. Of course, a man doesn’t need to know grammar, spelling and other rules by heart but he can always find the necessary rule in a manual and revise it.
Also it’s important not to turn a correspondence into something ordinary because for Russian women there are enough everyday moments in their lives. They need a romantic correspondence from a man but not all men can do this so masterly to manage to get a woman to fall in love with them by correspondence.
There are poems and compliments for this. It would be ideal if a man had a poetic style, but if he does not, then it is not a problem because great poets have written enough poems. It would be enough to add quatrains to your messages to express some idea or simply to end your messages with short patterns of love lyrics. And don’t forget about such a powerful weapon as compliments. The main thing is that the compliments should not be banal or vulgar, but original.
Man’s positivity will help to please a Russian woman
In correspondence a man should be energetic, emotional within reasonable limits, cheerful and well-wishing. A couple of jokes will never do harm and these jokes should be witty, but not vulgar or offensive.
During communication with a Russian woman a man shouldn’t complain about life or show that he is offended. Also don’t gossip and talk about the shortcomings of the former girlfriends. This doesn’t speak well of a man. It’s better to tell about the generous things done for a former girlfriend.
A man should remember that on the basis of messages a woman has to get an opinion about him so your goal is to show that you are an intelligent, caring, reliable, cheerful, kind and romantic person. A man should become a reliable friend and interesting interlocutor for her and be an integral part of her everyday communication.
Post more good pictures
A man should work well on his profile on the site. It is good if he fills it with a halo of success, mystery and intrigue and posts pictures which will show him from the best side. Women will surely appreciate it.
However, it’s preferable to post pictures taken in the bosom of the family, at a concert, on vacation or at the time of doing sports. A man needs to show lively pictures full of emotions and positivity! Photos must be real and taken from the man’s everyday life, and should not be posed ones!
Be individual, interesting and erudite
A man should have hobbies and interests. It is good if he reads books and shares his knowledge with others. In this way he shows a woman that he constantly develops himself, he is erudite and grows as a person. Any hobby which will characterize a man as an interesting interlocutor, a person with a great store of knowledge and the ability to behave in society will definitely attract a woman’s attention.
Corresponding with a woman, a man should behave naturally and not repeat the same information in his messages because a woman will decide that the man doesn’t have any fantasy. And, as is known, all women like diversity very much. If a man can surprise a woman via correspondence, then he will definitely attract her attention. How to diversify communication and not to repeat the same information? Interesting pictures, smileys, videos, movies, articles - all this will help a man to diversify communication with a woman and make it really interesting. A man just needs to be attentive and first learn about her interests.
The female psyche is arranged in such a way that she posts everything she is worried about in her status or on pictures sending to others a kind of hint. With a smart approach and understanding of female nature, a man will immediately come to know her hobbies, favorite movies or music. After that a man can send her a song that a woman will eventually associate with this man. When she hears this song somewhere, she will surely remember him.
What should you avoid during communication?
Men who try to please a woman and to win her heart via correspondence begin to do foolish things which bring all their efforts to nothing.
No woman likes it when a man allows himself to behave rudely, aggressively, unceremoniously with her and uses swear words in speech. Also, obtrusiveness and boasting are not welcome. If a woman doesn’t want to communicate, then there is no sense in insisting. A man shouldn’t elicit information from her and «worm himself into her confidence». Such emotional violence will scare a woman away. And a man also shouldn’t talk about his big financial sufficiency and opportunities. Least said soonest mended!
As a rule, women always feel a lie so a man should initially behave openly and honestly if he intends to build long and strong relationships. From the first days of communication it would be better to confess who he really is and what he does in life.
A man shouldn’t make a declaration of love in the first message because it will characterize him as a joker or a banal liar and a woman just will not respond to such a message. And even more, a man mustn’t write vulgarities in a message asking a woman to describe the clothing she is wearing and other nuances - it’s a direct way to the block list and blocking!
And, of course, a man mustn’t terrorize a woman in correspondence and interrogate her, asking why she didn’t answer on time and why she wasn’t on the site. Such interrogations can be made by a husband but not by a partner in correspondence.
Male tricks in correspondence
A man can limit communication and not devote all his time to a woman even if she is the only one he always thinks about. If he feels that a woman lost interest, then he just needs to go offline. Only losers are always online. A successful, confident man appreciates his time and he will not spend it for endless chatting on the Internet. Women understand it well and immediately notice it.
A man should often call a woman by name. All people react sensitively to the mention of their name and this is proved by psychologists. Using it actively, a man can attract attention and obtain confidence.
It would also be reasonable for a man to send messages at approximately the same periodicity as a woman does. If he carries on correspondence too lively, then he will show an excessive interest in communicating with her. There must be intrigue and light distance!
How long does it take to win a Russian woman’s heart via correspondence?
It’s not so easy for a man to win a woman’s heart via correspondence because it requires some time. It’s not enough to write 1-2 messages and wait in response that a woman will initiate any further communication. A man must win a Russian beauty himself because he is a man! And it may take a long time and efforts for him. It takes several months even to evoke a light feeling of love.
Of course, the love at first sight also exists but it’s almost impossible to win a woman’s heart by sending her only one message.
At the best, it will be enough to write a dozen of messages to a woman but a man should expect that it may take several months to load an object of his admiration with letters.
In any case, a man shouldn’t give up so quickly!
Try to perfect yourself and then, having become the best, you will certainly win a place in the fantasies of the best Russian woman who will appreciate your personality and you as an interesting and special man! Success and love to you!
Yulia
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