It happens sometimes in our life that we take offense at someone, and after that we get a weight on the soul. Offences accumulate inside us and then it gets very hard to get rid of them. We can’t forgive a close person, a friend or just an acquaintance, and as a result we live with our offences.
Scientists have found out that the ability to forgive affects the male and female health in different ways. It turned out that the ability to forgive is much more important for women than for men, and it’s extremely important for fair creatures to forgive.
So!
The power of forgiveness exists in every person. However, you should admire Russian women’s ability to forgive! Why? Forgiveness helps Russian women to love, accept, understand people and enjoy life. Let’s consider from the point of view of psychology how they do it and what is their secret.
Psychological aspect of forgiveness
According to research, the psychological state of women improves appreciably when they forgive, whereas men have a completely contrary situation as they feel much better when they are forgiven. Experts are convinced that when fair creatures forgive other people for the former offences or past faults, their psychological state improves considerably. Also, all signs of a predisposition to depression disappear and the general psychological tone of a woman becomes stable.
Of course, each Russian woman faces disappointment, lies and unfaithfulness in her life. But forgiveness helps Russian women not to focus on failures but at the same time to achieve the most practical and desired goals. As they forgive, the energy which was previously used for unhappy thoughts and feelings becomes free and is used for the creation of the life they want to have, but not for the increase of obstacles and sufferings.
The ability to forgive can be an excellent indicator of flexibility, ability to accept changes, activity of a life position and rejection of the role of the "victim". Also, when a Russian woman forgives, she has a beneficial effect on everyone who she is in contact with. Her thinking becomes clearer and more positive than before. A woman can give more to others, and she enjoys sharing what she has. She easily and naturally becomes kinder, more generous and caring because her views on life improve. A Russian woman becomes the best wife, best friend, best mother and best employer.
So! Let’s sum up all the above-said.
What forgiveness gives to a Russian woman:
• reduction of stress, symptoms of depression, anxiety, chronic pains;
• normalization of high pressure;
• reduction of risk of psychosomatic diseases;
• decrease of hostility and aggression;
• spiritual and psychological well-being;
• possibility to build healthy relationships with a man;
• reduction of risk of alcoholism and drug addiction.
Religious aspect of forgiveness in Russia
The release from offenses results not only in the fact that it positively affects the health of a Russian woman, but at the same time her soul feels a great relief. Releasing the former offenses, a woman relieves herself of the heaviest load of distressing memories and painful experiences.
In addition, much attention to getting rid of offences is paid in various world religions and in different countries. Russia isn’t an exception. Thus, Christians have a particular day in the year when people have the opportunity to remember their bad deeds and ask for forgiveness for them. This day is called Shrove Sunday, and takes place in Russia usually at the end of February or the beginning of March - it’s a time when people think a lot about forgiveness. All this shows once again how important a person’s ability is to forgive and to apologize for the things done.
Thus, in Russia the Christian church teaches and calls to begin exactly with forgiveness! Why? All accumulated offences, malice, anger, grief, hate, envy and other emotions pour out later into psychosomatic diseases. Our offensive, angry and bad thoughts "accumulate" in the organs. The anger accumulates in the liver and gall bladder, the offence in the heart, the tears and unexpressed emotions in the throat, the lack of joy in life or lack of love cause diabetes mellitus. In addition, such serious disease as cancer is often defined as a consequence of the past, deep offense. That’s where forgiveness is important!
As we see, the ability to forgive is the guarantee not only of the emotional but also of the physical health of a woman. And Russian women know about it!
Why is forgiveness so important?
Mainly, forgiveness is the decision of setting free the offence and abandoning the attempts to take vengeance. The very fact of the deed, pain and insult can forever remain a part of the female soul but thanks to forgiveness their influence on the woman’s life decreases. It happens that it’s forgiveness which gives an opportunity to understand, compassionate, sympathize with that one who caused this offense. That’s why, Russian women are the most compassionate and sympathetic women in the world!
Many people believe that forgiveness is something impossible. However, it is necessary to understand that through forgiveness a woman doesn’t relieve the responsibility of the offender who caused her pain, and doesn’t justify the deed. You can forgive someone but it is possible that you will not forgive the deed. Therefore, forgiveness is more important not for the one who is forgiven but for those who are hurt. Just the release from the bitterness and injustice helps Russian women to move forward, finding peace and good in the soul. The change of the offender’s behavior isn’t at all the goal of the woman’s forgiveness. Thanks to forgiveness, this person’s power is relieved from the woman’s life, and she regains control over it.
Benefit for Russian women from the ability to forgive
The ability to forgive can only help a woman, it can’t hurt her. Forgiveness is extremely practical and useful. Forgiveness makes a woman free. When she learns to forgive, then many problems, including health ones, gradually disappear. She gets new opportunities which come as if from nowhere.
The lucky coincidences start to happen to a woman and she begins to meet only right people at the right time. The ideas or answers also gradually come to her when she needs them very much.
Why does it happen? By practicing forgiveness a Russian woman becomes more open to the goods of life, so it’s easier for the good to come to her. As a woman learns to forgive, then her hidden abilities become apparent, and she finds herself much more strong and capable person than she could imagine before. Her life becomes much more joyful and pleasant.
Practice forgiveness!
After reading this material, draw the appropriate conclusions for yourself. If all this sounds at the moment for you as an exaggeration, then let it be so. Just practice forgiveness, as Russian women do and watch the changes in your life and in your way of thinking.
Begin to forgive and to wish everyone happiness, and then you will get rid of hate from your heart and will find harmony with yourself and with the world. Don’t destroy yourself! Take care of yourself, love yourself and others! Forgive and live in harmony!! And when there is harmony in the soul, then the body is fine!
I wish everyone happiness!
Yulia
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